Top 5 Myths About Counseling

There are certainly popular misconceptions about most professions but counseling — because there’s a certain shroud of secrecy surrounding it — seems to have more than its fair share.  Here are the top 5 myths about counseling: 1)...

Why You Should Rate Your Therapist

Has therapy helped you in the past?  Are you grateful for the support a counselor or therapist has given you?  Consider spreading the word. If you’ve ever tried to find a new therapist, you know it can be a bit of a struggle.  Unlike in many other...

Am I Having A Midlife Crisis?

Are you 40+ and feeling like you haven’t quite achieved everything you wanted to by now? Feel like you missed out on opportunities that will never come again?  Sure that you’re the only one of your contemporaries who feels this way?   (Cheery, I...

Good Book: Workaholism

Where I’m located just outside of Washington, DC, at any given moment, I’m a stone’s throw from a workaholic. Boundaries don’t tend to be the strong suit of the political establishment, the legal profession, or the military, all of which have a...

Exercise for Haters

January 1st is officially here, which marks the no-kidding-I-really-need-to-exercise milestone for many of us.  But what do you do if you really hate exercising? You have several options. 1) Just don’t do it and sometime around June when you’re about...

Is Your Mom a Narcissist?

Most of my clients arrive at the conclusion that their mother is a narcissist through the back door.  They come to therapy to uncover something about themselves: why they have such low self-esteem, how they can stop people-pleasing all of the time, or what they can do...

Thank You, Veterans

I was irritated to see advertising in my inbox today for Singles Day, which takes place on 11/11 (or four 1’s: the most “single” day of the year) because nothing should take away from celebrating our nation’s veterans, particularly not a day...