Leaving the So-So Marriage

Over the years, I’ve worked with a number of women who are contemplating leaving their marriages but who aren’t sure.  What’s holding them back?  “My husband’s a good guy,” they say.  “It’s not like...

Recovering from Infidelity

The feeling when you find out you’ve been cheated on is almost indescribable.  There’s such a potent combination of shock, sadness, rage, self-doubt, insecurity, disbelief, denial, and even feelings of competitiveness, that it can feel like...

The Anniversary of a Loss or Trauma

Anyone who has experienced a loss or trauma knows what I am talking about when I say that the anniversaries — whether that’s the actual date of the event, a birthday of someone you lost, or a holiday — are hard.  We can be subject to visceral...